We should, of course, be available to our students when they need us. To avoid teaching them to be overly dependent, though, keep in mind:
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You’re stepping back so your students can step forward and become independent. Keep this in mind.
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Clock how long it actually takes for students to start zippers, pick up dropped papers, or find page numbers. What’s a few more seconds in the grander scheme?
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Sit on your hands for a whole task while you practice giving verbal instead of touch cues. Hands off the hands!
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If you need touch cues, try hand-under-hand instead of hand-over-hand. This gives students much more choice.
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Let your students make mistakes and get into trouble. It’s part of the human experience!
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Acknowledge your own needs. There’s a reason you chose the helping profession.
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Sit further away. If you’ve been within arm’s reach, sit just within earshot. If you’ve been sitting just within earshot, sit across the room.
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Pat yourself on the back every time you help with seeing, not thinking. Your job is to give information.
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Even though helping can feel right, be aware that too much assistance is short-sighted. Sometimes less is more, less is better.
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Catch yourself before you correct your students’ work. Don’t cover for them. This is about their skills… not yours.
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Commit to no intervention for a whole activity. Take data instead. Things might not fall apart as much as you had expected.
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“What page are we on?” “What’s for lunch?” Have students ask their classmates instead of you, both during school and on the telephone.
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Assign student learning partners and sighted guides.
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Teach students to decline assistance, “Thanks, but please let me try it by myself.”
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Whenever you add prompts, include a plan to phase them out.
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Let the boss know that you need to step back so that your students can be more independent. You’re not shirking your responsibilities.
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Collaborate with other adults to break your habits of helping too much. Agree to remind each other to step back.
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Try helping only when classroom teachers give you a signal. They may prefer to respond directly or to give students longer to work it out alone.
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Post a sign, “Are there any other ways I could step back?”
– Adapted from Classroom Collaboration, by Laurel J. Hudson, Ph.D. (Perkins School for the Blind)
By Denise Fitzgerald